Losing your Mojo or motivation happens in any sport or activity. Many people feel deflated or frustrated or even in a rut. There is no quick fix to this but you can get out of this mindset using different techniques that can help stop that inner voice telling you to quit. I've read many articles on how to keep motivated and how to come back from that dark place. This is what I have discovered.
Don't be afraid to shout!
If you find yourself losing your mojo don't be afraid to ask for help or support. A good coach always has time to chat to talk about your options. Also at any given time we all go through this and it is beneficial to ask for guidance from other members in our club. You would be surprised with the positive response this can have.
Fake it until you make it!
I have heard this saying and sometimes by dragging those feet of yours into your club you might have fun or even better learn something that may have been difficult previously.
Repetition! Repetition! Repetition!
It goes without saying that repetition of techniques can help. Eventually once a person can break it down, the information can be stored. I call this my "light bulb" moment where I can understand how something works.
Stay clear of negativity!
A negative mindset can be contagious. This is where someone talking negatively about a person, place or object can subconsciously give you doubts about things.
Take pride in small victories!
This has been my mantra for many years taught to me by my son. Don't focus on the big picture, it will happen eventually. We are all on the same path to success but some of us might take a different route to stop and appreciate our surroundings. Break down your goals to easy, achievable results and this can eventually help you reach your final destination. Remember Rome wasn't built in a day.
As stated earlier there is no quick fix for this problem but trying different methods can help until you find what works for you.
A number of years ago I was training in my Krav Maga classes which honestly I do love but I was feeling very frustrated that I couldn't seem to progress. I thought I was absolutely useless and considered giving up. I plodded along in classes for a couple of weeks feeling like this until a wonderful woman in the club pulled me to one side after class. Marion was a strong woman and a force to be reckoned with. She fought with determination and always seemed to enjoy any task asked of her.
Marion could see that I was struggling with my motivation for my classes and I have to personally thank her for how she inspired me to continue on my Krav Maga journey. She spoke to me about her frustrations at times and how she could see the fight in me. I listened to her with great admiration as I could never imagine she once felt like I did. She then took something out of her pocket and said this is for you. It was a keyring with "small but mighty" engraved on one side and "never give up" on the other side. To this day I treasure my keyring and keep it safe at home. Marion done something that we talk about a lot. To me she was the definition of empowerment. She helped me believe in myself and even though I struggled at times I took on challenges with a new light.
What I wanted to share today is Marion's words of wisdom. Don't give up, keep going. You might be inspiring someone who believes in you. It might go unnoticed at times but believe me you are getting stronger.
KIDA